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I read several dozen stories a year from miserable, lonely guys who insist that women won’t come near them despite the fact that they are just the nicest guys in the world.

..I’m asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don’t say that you’re a nice guy — that’s the bare minimum.

“Well, I’m not sexist or racist or greedy or shallow or abusive! Not like those other douchebags!”

I’m sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don’t have, then back the fuck away..

..Don’t complain about how girls fall for jerks; they fall for those jerks because those jerks have other things they can offer. “But I’m a great listener!” Are you? Because you’re willing to sit quietly in exchange for the chance to be in the proximity of a pretty girl (and spend every second imagining how soft her skin must be)? Well guess what, there’s another guy in her life who also knows how to do that, and he can play the guitar. Saying that you’re a nice guy is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn’t make you sick. You’re like a new movie whose title is This Movie Is in English, and its tagline is “The actors are clearly visible”.

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showyoursupport:

mauridianhallow:

lambishwolf:

toptumbles:

This is called humanity


I have nothing to say on this, these people are the pinnacle of human compassion, and that is all there is to it.

An absolutely incredible group of human beings.

showyoursupport:

mauridianhallow:

lambishwolf:

toptumbles:

This is called humanity

I have nothing to say on this, these people are the pinnacle of human compassion, and that is all there is to it.

An absolutely incredible group of human beings.

weird-bug:

i just made this video

Happy (Woodkid Sad Remix)
Pharrell

virtualjew:


LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN THIS IS AMAZING

this is a remix of happy where the vocals are kept the same, but the instrumental part of it is completely different and really transforms the song

Not all cis people are bad or out to get you please stop categorizing us too. Nothing can get solved if everyone is judging each other. It’s like saying all teenagers do drugs and party. If pizza and movie nights count as partying then okay yes I party but I assure you I do not do drugs and I am 19 which is a teenager still technically. Yes, some cis people ask inappropriate and sexist questions or say rude comments to transgendered people but can we please categorize them as assholes and not as cis? It makes all of us seem bad. We’re not all bad. I promise.

y-a-h-w-e-h:

marialuisa-pr:

gynocraticgrrl:

Jessica Rey presents the history of the evolution of the swimsuit including the origins of its design, how it has changed overtime and the post-feminist association of the bikini symbolizing female empowerment. She refers to neuro-scientific studies revealing how male brains react to images of scantily clad women versus images of women deemed modest and what the implications of the results are for women in society.

(Note: As the OP, I disagree with Rey’s approach to putting the onus on women to alter ourselves rather than to alter the male perception of women – brain wiring has plenty to do with socialization and if we worked against the culture that fuels men’s objectification of women, women’s clothing choices would matter far less in terms of how men perceive us and determine how to interact with us).

Jessica Rey - The Evolution of the Swim Suit

bolding mine

Always going to reblog this.

fuckpeeps:

stunningpicture:

My niece thought my mom needed this sticker while she was sleeping…


keep an eye out for selener

fuckpeeps:

stunningpicture:

My niece thought my mom needed this sticker while she was sleeping…

keep an eye out for selener